10 Sacrifices of Commitment & 10 Priceless Gifts Partnership Returns
Commitment demands sacrifices, and there are reasons why they're worth it in every relationship. Here are the 10 Sacrifices of Commitment & 10 Priceless Gifts Partnership Returns.
- Cyra Sanchez
- 7 min read
Before you commit to someone, you must be willing to make sacrifices. After all, how can anyone prove their commitment without proper action to back up their words? As you find yourself ready to commit, prepare to make these 10 sacrifices at some point and enjoy these 10 priceless gifts you’ll gain in return.
1. Showing up during hard times
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Proving your commitment demands more action than words; hence, you’re expected to show up during hard times, even if it means making sacrifices. You could have no sleep, but you’ll still put in the effort of driving for hours to take care of your sick partner, for example. The more you care and the deeper your commitment, the more you’ll feel like your sacrifices are worth it.
2. Making plans that involve each other
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To show your commitment to making plans, turn every “I” or “Me” into “Us” or “We.” It would be best if you considered your partner because you’re navigating life as a team. Of course, this doesn’t mean you’ll lose your independence; if anything, it’s more about showing how much you care for your partner and their thoughts on the plans you make.
3. Letting go of attraction to other people
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Committing also means settling down with that one particular person. That’s why you’d have to let go of your other crushes (if you have one,) past flings, or even exes who may get in the way of your relationship. Wouldn’t you appreciate it if your partner reassured you by proving they’re only into you and no one else?
4. Having less time for yourself
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The more serious your relationship gets, the more time you have to sacrifice for yourself. Of course, this doesn’t mean you should let your partner consume all your time; it only implies that you’ll be spending more time together as your love grows deeper. To keep things healthy, ensure balance in your love and personal life by communicating with your partner.
5. Shouldering financial burden
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Life never flows smoothly; there will always be bumps on the road, including running into financial trouble once in a while. If you can help, consider coming to your partner’s aid to show your commitment. Since money is a sensitive matter that can put any relationship at risk, it truly challenges how much you’re willing to sacrifice for the sake of love.
6. Being each other’s emotional support
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In a committed relationship, your emotions will always be on the line; otherwise, you won’t be genuinely in touch with each other. Whenever your partner may need emotional support, you’ll be happy to stand by their side and provide for their needs. Often, this may cause you to push your struggles away to avoid burdening your partner, a considerable sacrifice a lover can make.
7. Dealing with conflict and arguments
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Being committed means accepting that your life won’t be as peaceful as when you were single. This doesn’t imply that love will only make you miserable; it only points out that conflict is inevitable. That means you have to sacrifice your mental peace during times of conflict. If not, your relationship will never be able to move forward.
8. Adjusting to each other’s boundaries
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Changing your habits or being wary of boundaries can be exhausting at first. You’ll have to embrace it when you’re fully committed to someone; it shows how much you’re willing to accept and respect their limits to avoid hurting each other. This adjustment is also a sacrifice that takes a lot of patience, control, and understanding to achieve.
9. Leaving the past behind
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It’s not uncommon to hold on to the past, especially if it holds much value to who you are today. But when you’re committed to someone, you must leave the past behind to focus on the future. You can’t be living in the past while loving someone who lives in the present; that’s why this sacrifice is necessary to make at some point.
10. Being willing to change for good
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Changing is always easier said than done. Dropping your old lifestyle to start anew or trading your habits for healthier ones can be difficult to achieve. It takes a lot of strength and dedication to make this sacrifice. So, if you can do it for the sake of love, then you know your commitment is real.
With all these sacrifices, one might wonder at some point: Is it all worth it? Indeed, it is. Find the 10 priceless gifts you’ll get in return for your sacrifices.
1. You won’t face hardships alone
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Relationships don’t work independently so that you won’t be the only one committing to them; your partner should do the same. After the sacrifices you’ve made for them, they’ll be more than willing to show up in your times of need. It’s only a matter of returning the gratitude and simply being there for each other in the name of love.
2. You have something to look forward to
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Now that you’re sharing your life with your partner, you’ll have someone to share the future. This means you have someone to support you in your decisions, someone to share your burden, and a teammate who can help you fulfill each other’s goals. Together, you can celebrate your dreams.
3. You’ll have a partner for life
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Being equally committed to each other means you both want to stay together forever. You’ll both let go of your attraction to different people and vow to be faithful to your relationship. This security promises a future where you won’t ever be alone, as you’ll have your partner by your side until you both grow old.
4. Bringing joy to each other
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In exchange for sacrificing your time, you’ll gain more time to create happy moments together. These memories are priceless and can be held on forever.
5. Creating a more stable future
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Making financial sacrifices shouldn’t be counted as favors that your partner should return; you’d instead think of those sacrifices as investments for your future as a couple. Of course, you must work together as a team to achieve a stable future. After all, one person can’t be the only one making sacrifices at all times.
6. Becoming each other’s soulmate
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Becoming emotionally intimate is the best way to connect with someone’s soul. That’s why all the time you have to put your emotions on the line and risk your heart for your relationship is worth it. You’ll gain a deep connection with your partner, enabling you to see each other as soulmates.
7. You’ll learn from each other
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All those arguments will teach you many things; you can learn from each other and grow simultaneously. The lessons you’ve learned will inspire you to improve your relationship. At the same time, they’ll also deepen your bond every time you resolve and survive any conflict.
8. Your relationship will be full of respect
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As you embrace each other’s boundaries, your relationship will build great respect. That’s because you value each other’s rules or demands and meet their expectations, even if it means making sacrifices at times.
9. You can work together for a brighter future
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Nothing can hold you back once you both let go of your pasts. Together, you can freely move forward and work on your future goals. Isn’t it priceless and refreshing when there’s no longer any weight that stops your relationship from growing?
10. You’ll grow as individuals and as a couple
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A healthy relationship will teach you how to love each other, guide you to love yourself, and help you grow better as a person. This priceless gift makes the sacrifices truly worth it, as nothing beats winning in both romance and individual life.