20 Empowering Quotes About Self-Love for Valentine’s Day

Speak it louder and gravitate toward love for yourself.

  • Cyra Sanchez
  • 6 min read
20 Empowering Quotes About Self-Love for Valentine’s Day
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This set of quotes is packed with self-love as a strong message for Valentine’s Day. It highlights words of wisdom from people who inspire and encourage confidence, care for self, and finding strength from within. It is a reminder that love starts with learning to love ourselves.

1. “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line.” – Lucille Ball

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Self-love is the basis everything else is built, and that’s what Lucille Ball humorously reminds us about. This saying is an excellent example of prioritizing oneself in such a manner to create balance and harmony. It is a humorous almost admonishment to put oneself first on your to-do list.

2. “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” – Buddha

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Well, Buddha’s wisdom stays with us forever and reminds everybody to love themselves. This quote reminds us all, including you, that you deserve your kindness. It’s a soft subtle reminder to treat yourself with the same directions you give to the world.

3. “To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.” – Oscar Wilde

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Oscar Wilde most strategically positions self-love as a long and joyful involvement. The problem is, while this quote implies that by accepting who you are, then you can embrace your best self, which may keep you on a journey of joy and discovery. It’s a call to fall in love with the person you spend the most time with, yourself.

4. “Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do.” – Brené Brown

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According to Brené Brown, embracing and loving our true selves takes courage. It takes courage to be imperfect and to let yourself be vulnerable. It’s an empowering reminder to honor your own journey.

5. “You are enough just as you are.” – Meghan Markle

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Meghan Markle inspiringly asserts innate self-worth without having to alter anything. This quote reminds us that just being ourselves is enough value. It’s a reassuring reminder that you are whole just as you are.

6. “How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you.” – Rupi Kaur

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A philosophical quote by Rupi Kaur clearly links self-love to how others perceive us and treat us. The second quote follows suit, implying our self-perception is the threshold for our outside relationships. It’s a very interesting prompt to set the example of the love that you want to receive.

7. “Self-love seems so often unrequited.” – Anthony Powell

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Anthony Powell chirpily remarks on the paradox of not practicing self-respect. This quote depicts how seriously we overlook self-love. It’s a gentle nudge to give back all the love you give away for free.

8. “You are very powerful, provided you know how powerful you are.” – Yogi Bhajan

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Yogi Bhajan teaches about the importance of knowing your own strength. Takes a powerful line to bring faith in yourself and your capabilities. Being aware of what you are capable of is a great way to spread and give back love.

9. “The most powerful relationship you will ever have is the relationship with yourself.” – Steve Maraboli

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Steve Maraboli highlights the importance of the relationship we have with ourselves. I emphasize this quote because our relationship with ourselves is the core of all relationships. That’s a good reason to cultivate and care for self-love.

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Self criticism influences the way we allow others to treat us, Eleanor Roosevelt affirms. This one explains that ditching what others think is a clear rejection of others. It’s a defiant reminder of your control over your self-worth.

11. “Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.” – Oscar Wilde

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Oscar Wilde wryly urges genuineness in us all. It encourages being true to yourself rather than a copy of anyone else. It is a witty prompt for celebrating your individuality.

12. “You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop.” – Rumi

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That Rumi quote poetically illustrates the whole potentiality inside each of us. This quote reminds you how much depth there is in you. It is an inspiring confirmation of your innate worth.

13. “Dare to love yourself as if you were a rainbow with gold at both ends.” – Aberjhani

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Aberjhani colorfully invites extravagant self-love. This quote encourages us to see ourselves as rare, precious, and beautiful. It’s a vivid reminder to look prettier to yourself.

14. “The better you feel about yourself, the less you feel the need to show off.” – Robert Hand

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Robert Hand describes the subtle confidence that arises from accepting who you are. True self-esteem ends the need for validation by others. It’s a gentle push in the direction of real self-confidence.

15. “Loving yourself isn’t vanity, it’s sanity.” – Katrina Mayer

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Katrina Mayer redefines self-love as a logical and healthful practice. It dispels the idea that loving yourself is egotistical. It’s a reasonable case for the need for self-care.

16. “You carry so much love in your heart. Give some to yourself.” – R.Z.

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R.Z. reminds us kindly, that our love is plentiful, let it go within. The quote encourages you to offer yourself the same compassion you offer others. It’s a soft invitation to make yourself part of your care circle.

17. “The real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself.” – Maya Angelou

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So, do we know who we are? Maya Angelou addresses this aspect of self-image transformation. On that note, this quote recognizes that the main enemy is usually yourself. It’s an insightful point about the significance of a positive self-image.

18. “You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.” – Maya Angelou

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Nothing can dim the light which shines from within. This quote implies no need for validation by others. It’s a potent assertion of self-sufficiency and self-confidence.

19. “Do your thing and don’t care if they like it.” – Tina Fey

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Tina Fey gives an irreverent and fearlessly funny take on self-acceptance. This quote reminds you to make yourself the priority in your life instead of other people. It’s a good, fun, and freeing reminder to be unapologetically alive.

20. “Self-love is not selfish, you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself.” – Unknown

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This quote dismantles the idea that self-love is vanity. It also emphasizes that true love is not a zero-sum game and that you can love other people when you love yourself. This is a comforting fact that self-care isn’t selfish, it’s a requirement.

Written by: Cyra Sanchez

Cyra, known as Cy, discovered her love for writing as a teenager, crafting fanfics on Wattpad inspired by her favorite anime. In 2019, she changed career paths to follow her passion for art and storytelling, and she’s been a content writer for global clients ever since. In her free time, Cy works on a dark fantasy novel she hopes to self-publish, writes poetry, plays video games, and brings her characters to life through digital painting. A fan of Game of Thrones and anime, she’s always inspired by rich, imaginative worlds.

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