20 Fun Relationship Challenges to Try with Your Partner
Spice up your relationship with exciting challenges that bring you closer together.
- Daisy Montero
- 5 min read
Doing fun challenges together is a great way to keep your relationship exciting. These ideas will help you laugh more, grow closer, and make new memories. Whether you want to try something creative, active, or just different from your usual routine, there’s something here for you. Pick a challenge, have fun, and enjoy the time together.
1. The 24-Hour Compliment Challenge
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See how many genuine compliments you can give each other in a day. It’s a fun way to make your partner feel loved and appreciated. You might even notice things you’ve never pointed out before.
2. The Surprise Date Challenge
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Plan a surprise date for your partner and keep it a secret until the last minute. It doesn’t have to be fancy, just something fun and unexpected. The best part is seeing their reaction.
3. The 7-Day Love Letter Challenge
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Write a short love letter to your partner every day for a week. It can be sweet, funny, or a simple reminder of why you love them. By the end, you’ll have a little collection of heartfelt notes.
4. The No-Phone Date Night
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Put your phones away for an entire date night and focus only on each other. No texting, no scrolling—just real conversations and quality time. You might be surprised at how much more connected you feel.
5. The Bucket List Challenge
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Make a list of things you both want to do together, big or small. It could be traveling somewhere new, learning a skill, or even trying a new restaurant. Having shared goals keeps your relationship exciting.
6. The One-Word Story Challenge
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Take turns saying one word at a time to build a story together. It can turn out sweet, silly, or completely ridiculous. Either way, it’s a great way to have fun and be creative.
7. The Secret Notes Challenge
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Leave little notes for your partner in unexpected places—pockets, mirrors, or inside their bag. It’s a small but meaningful way to brighten their day. You never know when they might need that little boost.
8. The Home Chef Challenge
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Pick out ingredients and challenge each other to come up with a meal. You might end up with something amazing—or a total disaster—but either way, it’ll be a fun experience. Just don’t forget to clean up together afterward.
9. The Try-Something-New Challenge
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Do something neither of you has ever tried before. It could be a dance class, a new hobby, or even just a different type of food. Stepping out of your comfort zone together makes it even more special.
10. The Five-Minute Staring Contest
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Sit face-to-face and stare into each other’s eyes without speaking. It might feel awkward at first, but you’ll probably end up laughing. You might also feel more connected in a way you didn’t expect.
11. The Dance-Off Challenge
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Turn up the music and have a dance battle in your living room. It doesn’t matter if you have moves or not—just have fun and go all out. You’ll get some laughs and maybe even a new inside joke.
12. The Swap Favorites Challenge
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Pick something you love, like a book, movie, or song, and share it with your partner. They might love it or hate it, but either way, you will learn more about each other. You might even find a new favorite together.
13. The Role Reversal Challenge
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Switch daily roles for a day. Whoever usually cooks, cleans, or makes plans takes a break while the other takes over. It is a fun way to step into each other’s shoes and appreciate what the other does.
14. The Travel at Home Challenge
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Pick a country and create a themed night around it. Cook food, watch a movie from there, or learn a few words in its language. This is a great way to “travel” without leaving home.
15. The Memory Lane Challenge
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Look through old photos, messages, or videos together. Reminiscing about past moments can bring back good memories and remind you of how far you have come. This is also a great excuse to laugh at old fashion choices.
16. The DIY Gift Challenge
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Make each other a small homemade gift that is meaningful rather than expensive. It could be a playlist, a handwritten letter, or a little craft. The effort behind it is what really matters.
17. The 10-Minute Meditation Challenge
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Try meditating together for ten minutes every day for a week. It might feel odd at first, but it can help you both feel more relaxed and connected. This is also a great way to slow down and reset.
18. The One-Day No Complaints Challenge
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Go an entire day without complaining about anything. Instead, focus on what is good, even when little annoyances pop up. You will both feel lighter and more positive by the end of the day.
19. The Morning Cuddle Challenge
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Start every morning with a few extra minutes of cuddling before getting out of bed. This is a simple way to feel closer and start the day on a good note. It also makes waking up a little better.
20. The 30-Second Kiss Challenge
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Make it a habit to share a long, intentional kiss every day. This is a small but powerful way to keep the romance alive. You might even find yourself looking forward to it more and more.