20 Love Languages and How to Use Them on Valentine’s Day

There's nothing more endearing than your partner getting into your love language.

  • Cyra Sanchez
  • 5 min read
20 Love Languages and How to Use Them on Valentine’s Day
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These love languages are more than the classic five we spoke about here; they are individualized ways in which we express and receive love. From shared adventures to handwritten notes, customizing gestures to fit your partner’s preferences can strengthen an emotional bond. This raises the question of whether these other expressions are understood, ensuring a more personal and fulfilling Valentine’s Day.

1. Compose a Heartfelt Love Letter

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One way is to write a heartfelt letter to your partner. Tell them what you like about them and echo some shared memories. This ageless gesture provides a physical remembrance of your love.

2. Create a Jar of Compliments

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Stuff a jar with notes. Each should list a quality you love in your partner. They can pull a note whenever they need a boost. This consistent affirmation is what lets you live your love every day.

3. Record a Video Message

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Record a video of yourself sharing what you love most about your partner. Remind yourself of their strengths and the happiness they add to your life. It serves as a winning reminder in the most lovable and sincere of ways.

4. Publicly Acknowledge Your Partner

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Regularly post to your social media thanking your partner for everything. Post a favorite picture and explain why they’re special to you. This public declaration allows them to feel special and significant.

5. Plan a Technology-Free Evening

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Set aside an evening with your partner and eliminate digital distractions. Try cooking together or play board games. That uninterrupted time breeds greater connection.

6. Recreate Your First Date

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Go to the place you had your first date and do what you did on your first date. Bring up the early days of the relationship. This nostalgic gesture is a tribute to your journey together.

7. Attend a Workshop Together

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Take a class together that you are both interested in, such as cooking or painting. Trying something new together can be a fun bonding experience. The shared experience will create lasting memories.

8. Go on a Nature Walk

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Take a walk around the nearby park or nature reserve while holding hands. Soak in the peace and each other’s company. This easy outing gives you quality time together.

9. Craft a Personalized Playlist

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Make a playlist of songs that remind you of your relationship. There are tracks from some memorable moments and new songs that perfectly relate to how you feel. This song is a thoughtful reminder and provides a soundtrack to your love story.

10. Assemble a Memory Scrapbook

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Create a scrapbook of photos, ticket stubs, and mementos. Sprinkle notes and dates as it applies to celebrate your journey as a couple. This custom gift commemorates your shared history.

11. Surprise with a Subscription Box

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Pick a subscription box based on your partner’s tastes, such as gourmet snacks or books. This recurring gift indicates continued thoughtfulness. Every delivery will serve as a reminder of your love.

12. Gift a Custom Piece of Jewelry

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Choose one where a date or initials are engraved. It’s a one-of-a-kind piece you can always wear to remember your connection. It’s a physical token of your love.

13. Prepare Their Favorite Meal

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Prepare a meal of their favorite foods. It is also a good time to set the table beautifully. Such effort is a testament to your commitment to their happiness.

14. Organize a Space They Use

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Clean up a space they use frequently: their desk, their car, or their room. This is an example of being attentive to their surroundings. It can bring them peace and comfort to have a decluttered space.

15. Handle a Chore They Dislike

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Take over a chore they typically loathe, like laundry or grocery shopping. Doing this relieves their stress and is a show of support. It’s a useful way to show your love.

16. Create a Relaxation Kit

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Gather things such as bath salts, candles, and a good book. Urge them to engage in self-care. These things can help them improve their health.

17. Offer a Massage

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Pamper your partner by giving them a relaxing massage at home. Try it with scented oils for added effect. This close, intimate gesture can relieve stress as well as strengthen your bond.

18. Dance Together

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Play your favorite slow song and dance together in your living room. This spontaneous gesture brings people together. It’s a straightforward and romantic means of physical connection.

19. Hold Hands During a Walk

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Hold hands and walk around slowly. This simple act helps strengthen your connection. It’s a small but impactful way of expressing love.

20. Cuddle During a Movie Night

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Pick a favorite movie and cuddle up together. Being close in a physical sense promotes emotional closeness. It’s a cuddly way to enjoy time together.

Written by: Cyra Sanchez

Cyra, known as Cy, discovered her love for writing as a teenager, crafting fanfics on Wattpad inspired by her favorite anime. In 2019, she changed career paths to follow her passion for art and storytelling, and she’s been a content writer for global clients ever since. In her free time, Cy works on a dark fantasy novel she hopes to self-publish, writes poetry, plays video games, and brings her characters to life through digital painting. A fan of Game of Thrones and anime, she’s always inspired by rich, imaginative worlds.

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