20 Morning Habits Happy Couples Swear By

Starting your day with the love of your life is like a dream come true for many hopeless romantics. Though, how can you be sure that your relationships will stay happy and the honeymoon phase never ends? The key is consistency and this article is here to teach you a few easy tricks to keep your bond strong. Here are 20 morning habits happy couples swear by.

1. Saying “I love you”

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Before getting out of bed or leaving the house for work or other matters, never forget to tell your partner you love them. Whether you fought last night or disagreed during breakfast, you should still express your love for your partner. After all, it feels heavy to go on your day not knowing if your partner still loves you.

2. Spending quality time

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Have a 5-minute rule in the morning. Take a moment to cuddle, hold hands, and be a little playful with each other. All those things are considered quality time that can strengthen any relationship. Isn’t it sweet to hear your partner say, “Just five more minutes? I want to be with you a bit longer.”

3. Giving good morning kisses

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Never underestimate the power of kisses. Even a quick peck on the cheek or a forehead kiss, a kiss can brighten up your partner’s day. It tells them you’re happy to be around them and are so glad to always start your mornings with them.

4. Checking on each other’s wellbeing

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“Good morning; how are you feeling today? Is everything okay?” A simple checkup on your partner like that could go a long way. It’s not only comforting but also helps both of you stay connected. Plus, it promotes healthy communication, which can make you both look forward to spending your mornings together.

5. Have breakfast together

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If both of your schedules match up, it’s an excellent idea to keep having breakfast together. You can surprise your partner occasionally by cooking beforehand and preparing your food together as a team. No matter your plan, a happy couple should eat together whenever they can.

6. Properly saying good morning

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When we get too used to our routines, it’s easy to forget the little things, such as adequately greeting someone a good morning. But when it comes to your partner, kissing them before you say “good morning” or texting them is enough to let them know that they’re always on your mind. 

7. Avoid rushing to leave the bed

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Due to work or other responsibilities, we may leave bed recklessly and forget to pay attention to our partner. So, unless you’re running late, make it a habit to slow down in the mornings. Check on your partner, hug them, and talk to them briefly before leaving bed.

8. Share coffee or tea together

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Drinking some excellent, warm beverages to wake you in the morning is refreshing, but it’s even better when you share them with your partner. Sit together and talk briefly as you enjoy your coffee or tea, whichever you prefer. It’s also a sweet gesture to bring the drink to your partner while they’re busy preparing for the day.

9. Giving each other time alone

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While being clingy or expressive in the mornings is important, giving each other the right amount of space and time alone also matters a lot. After all, everyone has personal preparations before they start their day, and it’s okay if you’re not included every step of the way. It simply means your partner is still an individual who would want to get things done alone, and it’s a healthy practice to avoid being suffocated by each other.

10. Smiling at your partner

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Smiling is free, and it should come naturally whenever you look at your partner. It’s the easiest way to show your partner that you’re happy to start your day with them. That smile can also be contagious, putting them in a good mood and creating a positive domino effect in your relationship.

11. Keeping the mood positive

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If negative topics in your mind don’t directly affect your relationship, it’s better to save those conversations for later in the day. An example would be talking about problems in the world that both of you barely have any control over or telling them that everything in life is pointless. These thoughts can weigh heavily on your partner’s mind, affecting your entire day, so it’s best to find a more suitable time than the mornings.

12. Be straightforward with your concerns

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If you have thoughts in your mind that bother you and could affect your relationship, it’s okay to bring those up to address them immediately. The sooner you discuss a problem, the faster you can resolve it together as a couple. This way, you can move on after the discussion and enjoy the rest of your day. 

13. Avoid dwelling on previous arguments

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If you had a fight the night before and already settled it, never hold grudges against your partner unless it’s severe and adequately resolved. Dwelling on already-settled arguments will ruin your day and could drain both you and your relationship. Only bring up your concern if it truly bothers you, but keep your discussion calm to avoid fighting in the morning. 

14. Have a shared morning ritual

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It’s more fun to start your days with a partner to do a ritual with. For example, you could enjoy showering together for fun or exercising and cooking as part of your ritual. Whichever activity you choose, ensure it’s something you equally want to keep your mornings worth looking forward to.

15. Compliment your partner

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Don’t forget to tell your partner how much you adore them, how they look beautiful or handsome that morning. It may not sound a lot, but small compliments can mean the world to your partner. That’s why you should always take the chance to praise them every morning and brighten up their days.

16. Showing gratitude

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A simple “thank you” can keep a positive attitude between you and your partner. It shows them that you appreciate even the little things you do for them, encouraging them to keep doing their kind habits even more. Showing gratitude is free, so make it a point to thank your partner in the mornings for taking care of you or simply being in your life.

17. Texting each other regularly

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Whether you live together or not, you should still send text updates to your partner. For example, tell them you have safely arrived at work and will be gone for a few hours. You can also mention how much you look forward to coming home to them or seeing them later, a sweet, simple gesture that can make your partner feel special.

18. Balanced chores

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Dividing your daily chores can help relieve each other’s load, so start planning your chores together to keep things balanced. When you tackle the day with a healthy plan that benefits each other, you’ll feel comforted by how well you work together as a team. Plus, it helps both of you focus on your chores instead of always doing them together.

19. Staying away from devices

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When spending time with someone, you’d prefer to have their full, undivided attention instead of competing with their phones, wouldn’t you? That’s why you should avoid using your devices in the morning and enjoy the moment of peace that you’re still with your partner. Those social media notifications can wait; the love of your life matters more.

20. Eye contact

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It hurts when you do everything to become noticed, but your partner won’t even glance at you because their eyes are glued to their phones or they’re too busy doing something else. That’s why every couple should take a moment to look at each other, have eye contact, and speak to each other’s souls before going about their day. Savor the sight of their presence and keep your connection alive.

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