20 Signs Your Long-Distance Relationship Will Last
Healthy signs that your long-distance relationship is your true love that can last forever.
- Cyra Sanchez
- 8 min read
For couples, being apart from each other is an unbearable thought. But that’s something long-distance couples have to face on a daily basis. They’re often wondering if their relationship can survive the cruelty of distance no matter how strong their love is. Since you’re curious about the truth, this article will reveal the green flags of a healthy, long-distance relationship that will last.
1. You make time for each other
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Despite the distance, you both still put effort into talking to each other, updating each other about your day, and consistently dropping by to leave a short message. To normal relationships, these may seem like simple, easy gestures, but in long-distance relationships, these little efforts to make time for each other matter the most. Especially when you both want to make your relationship last.
2. You’ve met their family
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You know your relationship is serious when your friends and family know about your relationship. If your partner has taken the initiative to introduce you to their loved ones and you have done the same, then that’s a strong sign that you’re both deeply committed to each other. It’s even better when their family loves you and can’t wait to make you an official part of their family!
3. You have the same goals
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It’s harder to make a relationship work when you both have different paths in life. So when you and your partner are on the same page and share the same goals, then that’s one step towards building a future together. Ask your partner if your plans align with theirs and if the answer is yes, your long-distance relationship will have a higher chance of lasting.
4. You plan for the future together
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Having the same goals also means you’ll most likely plan the for the future together. After all, what’s the point of having a serious long-distance relationship if you both don’t want to spend your life together in the future? So if you and your partner often talk about your plans to be together for good and get rid of the distance between you, that’s how you know you’re both serious about each other.
5. You both receive consistent updates
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It’s easy to feel anxious in a long-distance relationship and the best way to avoid that is by consistently updating each other. It doesn’t mean you have to stay on the phone or call each other every minute, even a simple good morning text or sending pictures throughout the day is enough to inform each other about what you’re both up to. A strong and healthy long-distance relationship consists of this, so if you and your partner are always doing this, that’s how you know you can stay together for good.
6. They’re always interested in how your day went
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When you’re far away from each other, both of you will always be curious about each other’s day. How are they doing, what are they up to, are they okay, did they eat well? So when you catch the opportunity to talk to each other, you both show genuine interest by asking how your day went and listen attentively at all times.
7. You can talk about anything comfortably
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A couple who can talk about anything comfortably will be more open to understanding each other. That’s why every long-distance relationship should be able to achieve this in order to last longer. Try opening up to your partner and see if they do the same. If they do, then that’s a good sign that you trust each other completely.
8. There are no secrets between you
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When distance is involved, it’s a lot easier to hide things from someone, especially your partner. That’s why a strong long-distance relationship should have no secrets between each other, or else, your bond would crumble faster once the truth comes out. As long as you and your partner can tell each other anything without fear, then that’s a healthy sign of a long-lasting relationship.
9. You both value trust
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When you both value trust, you’ll avoid things that can put a strain on your relationship. This means you and your partner avoid going back on your word, lying, and hiding things from one another. As the love experts say, trust is the foundation of relationships, so if you want your long-distance love to last, then always put value in each other’s trust.
10. You’re on the same wavelength
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Compatibility matters in any relationship, so if you and your long-distance partner are constantly on the same wavelength, then you’re less likely to feel bored with each other. That means you’ll never run out of topics to talk about, you’ll always have things to enjoy together, and you’re more likely to avoid arguments. These are factors that can strengthen your relationship, whether you’re far away from each other or not.
11. You rarely fight over small things
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Arguments are difficult especially when you mostly communicate online. After all, it’s hard to tell someone’s tone from the way they type or how to interpret their mood if you’re not on a video call. But if you and your partner manage to avoid fighting over the little things, that’s a good sign your relationship will last because you both have a great grasp of each other’s personality.
12. They make the effort to visit you
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Distance can be unbearable in the long run, so how can you reset this heavy feeling and renew the strength of your long-distance relationship? That’s right, you both have to make the effort to visit each other once in a while. If you’ve already met each other in person and still feel the same connection as before, then that’s a positive sign of a long-lasting relationship.
13. You have proper communication
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Relationships need proper communication, no matter the distance between the two of you. That means you’re both capable of sitting down and talking to each other calmly, and you both have no fear in expressing how you feel in your relationship. These are all positive signs of a bond that will last for a long time.
14. You’re emotionally intimate
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Being emotionally intimate with your partner means you’re comfortable telling them all your thoughts. You can tell them your secrets, your insecurities, your strengths and weaknesses, and many more. In exchange, you both understand each other on a deeper, emotional level and that’s something you need to strengthen a long-distance relationship.
15. Both of you can handle solitude
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Couples can’t always be around their partners at all times, you both need to have your individual lives too. So if you and your lover can handle solitude or just live your own lives without them by your side, then that’s how you can give each other some peace of mind. It means none of you are too dependent on each other and you both no longer seek the company of others which may lead to jealousies, temptations, or worse, cheating.
16. You find activities to enjoy together
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Despite the distance, a couple who truly wishes to spend time together will find things they can enjoy together, even online. For example, you or your partner always look for activities to do virtually, such as watching movies at the same time or playing a game together. This shows that you’re both actively putting the effort to bond with each other and that’s important to make your relationship last long.
17. They keep their promises
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It’s hard to regain trust once there are broken promises and it’s even worse for long-distance relationships. That’s why you and your partner should always consider your trust, making sure you keep their word and fulfill your promises even if it means you’ll have to sacrifice something such as your rest or sleep. These are good signs that you’re both dedicated to making your relationship last long.
18. You feel the connection
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Even across the screen, you can still feel a genuine bond and connection with your special person. This is true for many successful long-distance relationships, so pause and take a moment to think about your partner. If your heart swells in joy and you feel at peace as you picture them or a life with them, then that’s a positive sign your relationship can last.
19. You’re both patient
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Long-distance relationships are bound to face a lot of misunderstandings along the way. That’s why you both need to be extremely patient to avoid making any conflict worse and resolve the problem in the best way possible. Once you know you and your partner have the ability to be patient with each other, you’re both good to stay together.
20. Both of you are willing to make sacrifices
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Any relationship will eventually push you to make sacrifices when necessary. For example, are you willing to sacrifice the life you have now and move to the place where your partner lives? If your answer is yes and your partner can do the same, both of you are ready for sacrifices, then that confirms how deeply devoted you are to each other and you want to make your relationship last.