20 Signs You're Moving at the Right Pace
Life is a marathon, not a sprint--unless you're late for brunch, then it's a sprint, but with a side of grace and a latte in hand! Here are 20 signs you're moving at the right pace.
- Alyana Aguja
- 6 min read
Life is like running a race in which everyone around you panics, but the tortoise keeps moving at the right speed. You know that the key to success isn’t rushing but enjoying the small victories, like finding your keys or having the perfect nap at work. So, while the world speeds by, you’re sipping coffee with enjoyment and arriving fashionably late because, well, you’ve got the whole timing thing figured out.
1. You’re not in a hurry to hit every traffic light
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You calmly roll through red lights as if you’re in a movie montage. When the light turns green, you feel like you just won a mini lottery. Life’s too short to stress about stopping for a few seconds!
2. Your to-do list is more like a to-don’t list
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You’ve mastered the art of selective productivity. Instead of stressing, you stare at your list and say, “Yeah, that can wait.” The right pace means knowing when to delete things without guilt.
3. You occasionally take a nap at your desk (because you can)
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Productivity doesn’t always mean staying awake. If your head rests on your keyboard, consider it your body’s way of saying, “You’re doing just fine.” After all, dreams are where the magic happens!
4. You let others rush ahead, and you enjoy the show
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While everyone else is speed-walking to get ahead, you casually enjoy the chaos. People running around with their phones and calendars are your entertainment. You’ve got a front-row seat to the “Hurry Up and Wait” show.
5. You have no idea what the word “multitasking” means
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You’re so relaxed that you do one thing at a time and do it well. Someone tells you to juggle, and you respond, “I don’t even juggle my emotions.” You’re a one-task-at-a-time kind of person; honestly, that’s all the wisdom you need.
6. Your phone is often on “Do Not Disturb”
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You’ve realized that “do not disturb” is not just for the airplane mode. You leave notifications on the floor while you sip coffee in peace. If it’s important, they’ll leave a voicemail, right?
7. You stop and smell the roses, and occasionally, the pizza
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Life’s too short to be rushing past the small pleasures. You linger on the side of the road to appreciate the smell of freshly baked bread or a perfect slice of pizza. Both are signs you’re in perfect sync with the universe.
8. You’ve forgotten what a “busy week” feels like
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Your calendar doesn’t look like a war zone; it’s a gentle walk in the park. When someone says they’re “so busy,” you smile and nod, wondering when “busy” became a competitive sport.
9. You start conversations with “I’m just vibing”
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You no longer have an agenda for every interaction. You’re just there, living the moment and letting things flow like a well-cooked soup pot. The right pace means you’ve mastered not rushing a good chat.
10. You’re on first-name basis with your coffee machine
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Your coffee machine gets more quality time than your gym membership. Each cup feels like a hug in a mug, reminding you that no matter what happens, caffeine is there to keep things chill.
11. Your house plants are thriving, despite your best efforts to ignore them
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You’ve reached zen, where you forget about your plants, and they grow independently. The real secret to success? Not stressing over the little things—especially if they’re green and leafy.
12. You don’t “do” mornings, you “live” them
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Are you waking up early? No, you prefer to greet the sun when it feels right. You take your time rolling out of bed, as if every morning is a personal invitation to relax. Plus, you’ve mastered “snoozing” like an Olympic athlete.
13. You have mastered the art of “productive procrastination”
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You put off essential tasks but still manage to do other things—like reorganizing your sock drawer or color-coding your closet. You’re not procrastinating; you’re just prioritizing the small stuff. It’s a fine line, but you walk it gracefully.
14. You spend more time looking for your keys than actually leaving the house
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You wander around looking for your keys, and when you finally find them, you’re like, “I wasn’t in a rush anyway.” You know that if you had rushed, you would’ve spent half the day searching for your car.
15. You wear “comfy shoes” to every event
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Heels? Tight shoes? Not in your world. You’re in it for comfort and style—because there’s no rush, and you need your feet to support your stroll to success. Fashion can wait; blisters can’t.
16. You are an expert in waiting for the perfect moment
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You don’t make “impulse decisions.” You’ve got your eye on the prize, but you know the prize will still be there in five minutes—or five years. It’ll happen when the stars align if it’s meant to happen.
17. Your social calendar looks like a suggestion list
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You’ve stopped accepting every invite because you’re “just not sure” if you’ll feel like showing up. You’re not flakey; you’re just living on your timeline, which always coincides with a nap.
18. You make the perfect cup of tea… for an hour
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You spend the first 10 minutes making it perfect, the next 20 deciding whether it’s too hot or too cold, and finally, you drink it… to realize it’s cold again. You’re not in a rush; it’s just tea.
19. You eat lunch at a reasonable hour, not because it’s necessary, but because it’s what feels right
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You’ve heard people say, “Lunch is at noon,” but you think, “Nope, I’ll eat when the vibe is right.” Sometimes, that means 3 p.m., and sometimes, it means 10 a.m. You go with your gut and your stomach’s timeline.
20. You always “arrive fashionably late” because you’re on your own time
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It’s not that you can’t make it on time; it’s just that fashionably late feels like a lifestyle. You strut into events with the confidence of someone who has mastered the balance between responsibility and relaxation. You may be late, but your pace is perfect.